February 17, 2011

From a students perspective...

If you are interested in a self defense awareness class, I would strongly recommend Vicki Kawelmacher’s.  I say self defense awareness, because that is what she does; she helps women (and men) be aware of many possible situations we may need to defend ourselves against, and gives us the tools and knowledge to use toward that end.

Hi.  I’m Freda Kurtz and my husband, Chris and I have taken most of Vicki’s classes and will hopefully have all of them under our belts soon.   In addition to that I have recommended her classes to my friends because I believe that she can help them to be better prepared in the event of a bad situation. 

I would really prefer to go into detail of what I like about each class but that would take more than my allotted space here, so I will summarize.
 
  • 1. She has a passion about people’s safety and making sure that the bad guy will not take advantage of us.  Some of her family has been the target of abductors and home invasion, so she knows firsthand what can happen, prepared or not.
  •  2. Her presentations are very detailed, passionate, humorous and easy to understand.  She makes sure that safety is the first priority, especially in her firearm courses. 
  • 3. She makes you think of scenarios that we normally don’t worry about.  For instance, what do you do if someone breaks your front door down while you are home?  She helps you plan your scenarios so that you can maximize the potential of defending yourself or escaping safely with your family.
  •  4. She helps you set up your house, car, travel, etc. so that a victimizer will hopefully not bother you, but look for an easier target.
  • 5. She offers tools and makes recommendations of tools (security items, pepper spray, knives, signs, tazers) to carry on your person or have about your house to help safeguard against attackers.
  • 6. She has an assistant that has earned a fourth degree black belt that teaches women how to use basic forms of Martial Arts to defend against attackers.

I appreciate that Vicki has added the Women’s Safety Academy to the Women’s Shooting Academy in her forum because she understands that firearms are not for everyone, and that we can still greatly enhance our chances of avoiding a bad situation, or getting away from a bad guy, by being aware of what’s out there.

Thank you for the kind words!
-Vicki

February 11, 2011

Is there really a Warrior in every woman, or in every man?

Written by:  Christopher W. Roode

Is it a gene that a person is born with, or only a condition that is born from necessity or emergency? Can being a Warrior be quantified and measured?

The human body has demonstrated itself to be whatever the brain has commanded it to withstand, or perform. The human brain has both the function of deciding and acting, but each person decides and acts to the same situation differently. This process of deciding and acting separates Warriors from non-Warriors. So are only certain people predisposed to conduct themselves as Warriors, and to understand the Warrior mentality? The Warrior mentality is one of waging war, or engaging in combat. This combat leaves no room for “rules of fair play” nor time for rational thinking of what the consequences of the persons conduct during that combat situation bring. To understand the coldness, and suddenness of combat needed when acting in defense, and being able to functionally react and live with the results of that action, lends me to believe that only certain people of both genders actually can possess the Warrior Spirit. This is plainly exampled in the history of humans that have been subjugated to crimes, torture, and death with no will whatsoever to neither resist nor protest verbally. They willingly let others determine their fate.

Necessity and emergency sometimes reveal the Warrior within. Those individuals react to a situation with force and tenacity, but with very little preparation or experience. They rely on luck, more than skill and training. The outcomes of these situations that are driven from desperation, sometimes result favorably by sheer chance, but less often than the encounters experienced by Warriors that train and plan for such events. Therefore I don’t believe that we can call these reactionaries Warriors, for they do not have forethought of what combat is, and make no plans for it. They might even vocally shun the idea of ever using force, or causing the demise of another human being, no matter the circumstance. It is only their unconscious instincts for survival that saved them from their peril, so they cannot be considered Warriors.

A Warrior always prepares and trains for battle, but may never utilize those skills. A Warrior is measured by what preparation has been made, and the willingness to execute the actions necessary when called upon. A Warrior believes that preserving life, theirs or someone else’s, is a necessity that must be considered, with steps taken to prepare for such an eventuality, regardless if the need ever arises. Humans are the only animal that turns toward danger, and a Warrior is the only human that will face it head-on instead of cowering, or retreating. As a Warrior, you may be misunderstood by those that do not possess the Warrior Spirit, but when the time comes they will look to you for salvation.

You know today, right now, if you possess the Warrior Spirit if you feel the need may ever arise to protect yourself or others. You know today, right now, if you posses the Warrior Spirit by your willingness to train and learn the techniques, and weapons, necessary to ensure a favorable outcome if the need to engage in combat ever arises. Good fortune to you Warrior as I leave you with this quote from former President Theodore Roosevelt:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.”


Thank you Christopher for contributing your thoughts and opinions.
Would you like to be a guest writer? Please contact Vicki for more information.

Be safe...
-Vicki

February 04, 2011

WHAT IS IDENTITY THEFT?

Identity theft is when someone pretends to be someone else.  Typically this is done as a way to access credit and other financial gain.

There are multiple forms of identity theft, below are a few examples.
  • Social Security Theft- A criminal can create a whole new identity with a social security number.  We give our social security number so freely to just about anyone who asks.  When you are at the doctor’s
  • Drivers License Theft- Be very careful to protect your driver’s license number.  There have been a lot of people who have been stopped for a simple traffic violation only to find they are under arrest for multiple driving violations.  Unfortunately the offenses were committed by someone who had a fake license in your name.
  • Medical Identity Theft- This is very serious with huge negative consequences.  Given the state of healthcare these days many people are desperate for medical care.  Once again, once they have access to your social security number they can assume you.  The dangerous part is when they start seeking medical care as you.  Next thing you know you go to the doctor for a routine appointment and find out you were recently diagnoses with HIV.  It could take years to get your proper medical charts back in order.
  • Criminal Identity Theft- The criminal commits a crime and when they give up the documentation to support who they are they give up documentation with your information.  Imagine again finding out that you have been involved in a crime.  This can be a horrific experience and you may need to seek the advice and/or legal counsel from a professional.

In the event that you suspect that you may be the victim of any of these types of situations do your best to get out ahead of the problem.  Change your passwords immediately and notify the proper authorities and credit bureaus.

National Credit-Reporting Bureaus

Equifax   
P.O. Box 740256, Atlanta, GA 30374
800-685-1111
www.equifax.com

Experian
P.O. Box 2002, Allen, TX 75013
888-397-3742
www.experian.com

TransUnion  
P.O. Box 2000, Chester, PA 19022
800-888-4213
www.transunion.com

Please feel free to comment if you have been the victim of any of these types of fraud.

Until next time...

-Vicki